Ask the question and you’ll find the answer, and it may be much more simple than you thought!
I had a technical question I needed answering (I always struggle with techie stuff so like to get good advice before I make any major moves!) and so I contacted my hosting company on live chat. The silly part about it is as soon as I’d asked the question the simplest solution popped into my head! A bit of typing later and the techincal help confirmed what I was thinking. But before I asked the question I had no idea there was simple answer.
I had thought and thought about what the solution could be and came up with no answers at all. Eventually I thought of a really complicated way to solve the situation, but it was so complicated I decided I should ask the hosting company if I was doing it right. And that triggered a much better resolution to the problem. I didn’t need the confirmation of the hosting company in the end, but if I had not asked them the question the simple answer would not have come to me.
There is a saying that the only stupid question is the one that isn’t asked. How true that is!
So if you are pondering over something ask the question and you’ll find the answer and it might come from yourself, not the person you are asking!